Here Are The Biggest Misconceptions People Have About Life

Delusion is a sweet thing to cling on to. It makes us relax. But sometimes, it is just better to face the realities. What life should ideally be like and what it really is, are two different things. We all have some misconceptions which only make us sad later in life.

These misconceptions should be done away with in order to live a happier life.

1. Life can become better overnight

Life does not become better overnight but by continuous effort

It’s silly to think that success happens overnight. It’s a byproduct of everything around us. Success comes in different ways to different people but it’s seldom a short-term phenomenon. Planning, preparation, performance, and the process of keeping it up to the mark rarely happens overnight.

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2. Buying that will make my life better

Appeasing your materialistic needs will not make you experience happiness

You don’t need a better job or a better phone in order to be happy. 20 years later, you won’t even remember that you had that good phone. Don’t equate happiness with things. Just because you can not buy an iPhone does not mean that you are unhappy.

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3. There is a right way to live life

There is no one right way to live

Don’t let anyone tell you how to live your life. And at the same time, your beliefs and principles may not be ideal for someone else, so don’t tell others the right way to live life.

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4. This is going to last forever

The concept of “forever” does not exist

Nothing lasts forever. Neither people in your life, nor you or your temporary goals. What we feel today changes tomorrow.

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5. People get what they deserve

People do not always get what they deserve

It is not necessary that you will get what you deserve and expectations like these might prove to be delusional in future. People face terrible things even though they do not deserve it.

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6. Everything happens for a good reason

All that happens, does not necessarily happen for the good

“Everything happens for a good reason” is a saying and a way of looking at life. It is not true for everyone. There are unjust things happening all around the world. People aren’t slaughtered for a good reason. A healthy man doesn’t die in a road accident for a good reason. Don’t assume the events that take place in this world are always for good.

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7. This idea will change my life

Most people think it’s all about the idea. It’s not.

Everyone has ideas. The hardest part is the execution of it. Ideas are nothing without execution.

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8. The good old days will never come back

Your future might turn out to be better than your past

Nostalgia is a bittersweet thing. While it is absolutely fine to think that the past was beautiful, stop lingering there for too long. We all feel that life as a kid was amazing, but it is stupid to want that back. Move on and make your future better.

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9. Finding a soulmate will change my life

You may or may not find your soulmate. They may or may not change your life.

Finding a soulmate is not life-changing for everyone. Clinging to the idea that a person will come in your life and all your miseries will just vanish is stupid. It never happens.

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10. “Life will get easier with time, work hard now and you can have fun later”

It is not necessarily true

There are different challenges at all turns of life. Struggles of a 20-year-old and a 40-year-old may vary but it won’t necessarily get easy unless you work for it.

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37 Comments Add yours

  1. stacilys says:

    What a great post. You have pointed out some very wise understandings. I agree with almost all of this.
    🙂

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  2. rumadak says:

    One of the besets posts I have read lately!!

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    1. AKIRAA says:

      Thanks but I have just shared this.. :))

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  3. rumadak says:

    One of the bestest post I read lately!!

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    1. AKIRAA says:

      Thanks but I have just shared this.. :))

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  4. Itsmine says:

    gr8 !
    but I just hate the 4th thing ,though its true.. 😉
    cause I want the concept “forever” ,at least for relationships ! 🙂

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    1. AKIRAA says:

      Accept it!
      This is Life…

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      1. Itsmine says:

        no but I really dont want to accept ! 🙂

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      2. AKIRAA says:

        Your choice..

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      5. AKIRAA says:

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      6. Mitr says:

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      7. AKIRAA says:

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      9. AKIRAA says:

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      10. AKIRAA says:

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      11. Mitr says:

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      12. AKIRAA says:

        It’s ok now! 😉

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      13. AKIRAA says:

        Yes but atleast you can view the comments.. I just wanted to tell you that the twitter is not coming.. they are showing that the daily limit has been crossed and now I cnt access the account till I put my phn no.

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  5. Yogesh Parashar says:

    Yes. You cleared illusions of words

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    1. AKIRAA says:

      Happy to help! :))

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  6. Great read 🙂 Thanks for sharing Akiraa 🙂

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    1. AKIRAA says:

      Thanks!!! :))

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  7. I’m just thinking if I have any more wisdom to contribute to this… Still thinking… It ain’t all rainbows and sunshine, so instead of chasing those, just try dancing and singing in the rain

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  8. Rangelz says:

    I’d like to think of it this way. If the suicider had thought that things would become alright overnight, he might have lived. Buying things do give happiness for a short while. It need not be anything expensive. Even a little bit of happiness in life counts. 🙂 The notion that if I work hard now, I can have fun later, helps me work hard when it is necessary.
    I agree they are all misconceptions. But these misconceptions do keep us going. 🙂

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    1. AKIRAA says:

      Hey Rangkelz, it’s written that it’s not necessary to buy expensive things in your Life! Yes I agree with you till some extend but it’s written in the post as well that till you work hard you won’t get success.. whatever is your age!
      Basically it’s how one looks at it! As they say a coin has two sides.. so I guess the way you look at it is kinda different from mine!
      But that’s why you’re awesome! Everybody is Unique! 🙂

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      1. Rangelz says:

        Yes, differences in perception it is 🙂

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      2. AKIRAA says:

        Yep.. nothing else! 🙂

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  9. Erika Kind says:

    On of the greatest posts I read for a while. I so agree! Number 6 is something I always make sure is unserstood too. There is no “good” reason that something happens. There is simply a reason! Wonderful points. Big, big compliment, Akiraa!!!

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  10. I wonder where these misconceptions come from?

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    1. AKIRAA says:

      From experiences my friend!

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  11. ramexa says:

    These are all hard-hitting but true. You can’t predict life.

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  12. Himali Shah says:

    Nothing lasts forever. Neither people in your life, nor you or your temporary goals. What we feel today changes tomorrow.

    This was the best for me ❤ Thank u for sharing !

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    1. AKIRAA says:

      Yes.. completely agreed! And we should not get attached to stuff like that! ☺

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